6 Reasons Why We End Up Hurting People? Outburst Of Emotions Reasons.

There are only those 'little things' that makes our small world so beautiful and big! All that we store as memories in our tiny little hearts. 

Sometimes those little things are also defined as 'emotions' that are attached to some people, moments, material things we like or want in our life or that we had. 

We attach our emotions to the smallest thing such as our clothes to big things like our life dreams, also for people in our life for whom we are willing to do anything for this 8 letters word 'Emotions' also called feelings. 

'Emotions are such a powerful thing that it can either make you or break you!'

We love happiness, but it's not the whole truth as we also need 'downs- sadness' to run our lives as both 'ups and downs' make it one whole piece (i.e. so called not broken). 

Reason we hurt people - 

1. We are unable to express 

We are unable express what  we really feel in the inside , we struggle and struggle but our tongue always ties up when we try explain our feelings of any type, it might be anger, love, guilty, etc.. 

The reason behind that we are unable to express, as we think what difference will it make if someone knows or not knows how I feel or someone will make a joke out of my feelings!! Which isn't true it makes a great difference when we speak up , it's not you who should be ashamed of expressing feelings but the person who makes a joke out of it, expressing your emotions, your feelings will level up your confidence and gives you inner satisfaction that at least you did spoke up after all, and than only the other person will know how you really feel.

2. We jump to conclusions 

Without knowing the feelings/intention behind doing something or what they did, we jump to conclusions that we create in our own mind. 

" Insano ke pas ek chiz bahot kamal ki hai, wo hai Zaban, Bhasha. Iski wajah se woh ek dusre ko apni feelings, ideas bata sakte hai.

Yebhi inhi ka kamal hai ki is facility ke hote hue bhi inme jitni misunderstandings hoti hai, behzubaan janwaro mein nahi milengi." -- Dil dhadakne do (Let the heart beat)

3. Reckless thinking.

When ever we are sad or angry or very happy our mind doesn't think rationally and make decisions or speak something we never meant to but it gets too late. 

Therefore it is always said --

4. Neglecting others happiness.

We often neglect what other person really want, what are their wishes, what are their views, happiness, sadness over ours even if we love them.

Knowing that other people also have same feelings, wishes their own thinking as much as you have. 

Their life decisions has equal value as yours. 

5. Imposing your own ethics values on other individuals lives.

Every individual is not same, everyone has their own life, dreams, necessities, etc.. Imposing your own experience restrictions, ethics, values on others people will never get you anywhere it will only make hurt that person and get him/her far away from you. Life is what a person has never try to control other's life experiences, values, thinking, because everyone one needs or has birth right on his/her life even if he/she is your husband, wife, child, relative colleague or anyone in this world.

"Agar koi alag tarah jeena chahta hai, toh usse jeene do ..

Har dil apni hi tarah dhadakta hai, har dil dhadakne do" -- Dil dhadakne do (Let the heart beat)

6. Fear of losing someone.

Fear is the only thing that makes us mistake every situation in our life for example-- fear of exam makes your exam ruin, same way fear of losing someone makes you hurt them. You never really want to hurt the person but in fear of losing him/her you either push them away from you which is the psychology of our human brain or you hold to them tightly that they can't be independent and won't be able to have their own time and space which eventually leads to hurting and sadness. 

Conclusion: 

Not Hurting someone is all about understanding them, giving them their own time and space, giving a ear to listen to about what they really feel in the inside, their want's and needs have equal value as yours!

We think there is different between rich people and poor people but emotions are the same.

God created us all the same by emotionally, physically, by brains, by hearts,  it is we who differentiated!